Observe the observer
This morning, I went to the bank. I had a small task to complete, and the staff asked me to sit for a while. As I sat there, I pulled out my phone and started scrolling aimlessly. I was only focused on my work at the bank—nothing more.
I remembered how, as a child, visiting the bank used to feel so exciting. I would look around with curiosity—at the staff, their shiny cabins, the various forms, and everything else. I still recall their logo and a large piece of art that used to hang there.
Today, however, there were changes in the bank’s surroundings. But I didn’t notice them, as my attention was glued to my phone. It made me realize how much I’ve dulled my ability to observe and engage with the present moment.
Being present means being fully aware of what’s happening around you—paying attention to every detail, every feeling, and understanding how you react to it. This awareness doesn’t come easily, but with daily practice, it can grow.
The truth is, we often ignore the present and lose ourselves in artificial distractions—like endlessly scrolling through our phones. This habit pulls us away from experiencing the real world.
To sense something new, our mind needs to be steady and alert, but very few people have this quality today.
If we think about it, can we notice something new in places we visit regularly? I believe we can, but what we notice will change with age and perspective.
Your intelligence is determined by how sharp your observation is and how deeply you engage with what you observe. That’s why the key is to observe the observer—yourself. When you do this, you’ll gain a whole new perspective on life
What has been your experience?
